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This is the Work Smart Hypnosis Podcast, session number 277 Arthur Bliss on Rewire, Reset, and redefined. Welcome to the Work Smart Hypnosis Podcast with Jason Lynette, your professional resource for hypnosis training and outstanding business success. Here’s your host, Jason Lynette. Welcome. To the program, it’s Jason Lynette, and this week we’ve got Arthur Bliss from Australia on the program, sharing his three step formula for change, rewire, reset, and redefined.
And what an outstanding theme of jumping into this conversation at a time. We’re around the world. Many hypnotists are rewiring and resetting and redefining. They’re businesses in terms of how we learn, how we help our clients, and how we can increase that reach online. And in this conversation with Arthur, we’re gonna talk about his transition out of the corporate world and into the hypnotic professions, the patterns of hypnosis and nlp, and specifically how they apply to change.
And really a fascinating conversation in terms of working with group dynamics. And how we interact with people all around the world that the nature of everything these days is that the world has become a whole lot smaller, that it’s never been easier to get in contact with a group of people to broadcast a message.
And if you haven’t been tracking Arthur online, he is doing some phenomenal stuff. That, quite honestly, was a bit of an inspiration to me in terms of upping that game in terms of how we can. Reach that audience and provide a phenomenal experience. You can head over to the work smart hypnosis.com website to find details about exactly how to connect with Arthur and find out more of his upcoming events.
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This is a free on-demand presentation and you can check it out right [email protected] And with that, let’s jump directly into this week’s session. This is episode number 277 Arthur Blis on Rewire, Reset and Redefine. Well, the first introduction of hypnosis for me was, Look, what’s coming to my mind is the superhero in my life has been my brother.
Yeah. And my brother’s not necessarily a hypnotherapist by trade. He’s a wellness practitioner. He’s a chiropractor, he’s a naturopath. A homeopath. But of course when he’s working with you and you are completely focused on what he’s doing, you’re in trance. Mm-hmm. . So, so he may not put me under specifically or in trance, as we say, as we learn in hypnosis, but through the work that he does, and then he’s focused on you and the way he looks at you and the work that he’s doing.
You are mesmerized. And, and I suppose that was the turning point for me. The work that my brother did with me 25 years ago that prompted me to move into the, the wellness industry, complimentary medicine, personal growth, learned my hypnosis and my NLP back in 1997. So my, my trainer was originally Tad James.
So if I was to look at a, a hypnosis Strat back then, Tad was, My initial train and then, you know, went on to, to learn a whole range of other techniques. You know, not only from the nlp, the hypnosis, but a whole range of other mind work that, you know, we’ve integrated in our, in our works over the last 25 years.
Is there a specific story I wanna go back to? You mentioning working with your brother, which, you know, people go through a hypnosis training and people come in with all different experiences in their past. My favorite aspect of that are the people who often pop up and go, Oh, I’ve already been doing this, but now I get to do it on purpose.
Yeah. So I suppose if I look, think of the story with my brother, as I said, he’s not necessarily a trained as a hypnotherapist, but working as a chiropractor kinesiologist, he use. A tool to tap into the unconscious mind through the body. A mind body tool like muscle monitoring, muscle testing it, you know, it’s almost like an idiomotor signal where he is communicating with the body and asking the body to gimme a sign if and pressing on an arm.
And so for me, that’s what was mesmerizing and being able to connect to thoughts. Memories and beliefs and emotions that are caught up in the unconscious mind and bring him to awareness consciously, and then release him through what he, you know, through the process that he was working with. I, I, I mean, you ask about a superhero.
I, I, I go, I go back to Pete as a superhero for me in this field. As I said, he’s not, is not necessarily. A hypnotherapist by trade, but he’s completely mis you ask any of his thousands and thousands and thousands of clients. So 10 thousands of clients over the last 20 years. They’d say he’s mesmerized them and you know, he’s really at the peak of his field.
He’s a clinician that he’s well sought after worldwide and, and, and, and people know him because of the results that he gets and mm-hmm. , his ability to be able to bring, to awareness what’s happening within a body, through the process that he works with. So it’s really bringing the unconscious, other conscious or a mind body tool.
So, you know, I, I went, I went to learn that to, I suppose, my introduction into the field before I went to do my hypnosis and my NP training. Jason, I actually went to learn the kinesiology myself. I thought, this is fascinating. I wanna learn this stuff myself. So, like everyone else, you know, you have a, your own personal experience of healing in this field and, and you gravitate towards.
Wanting to learn these tools yourself to not only be able to improve what it is that you’re doing, but be able to, then you become a superhero of someone else. Right. You know, suddenly we can heal the planet, right? So we learn all these tools there and we wanna go out there and so we are gonna be the saviors, we’re gonna do it for everyone.
And so we go on our journey and, and that prompted me to, to, to learn these tools. And that was, for me was the starting point of, of coming down this field. And at that time where I learned this mind body technique also went to learn. My NLP training and my, and my hypnosis training, and that was me coming out of, you know, when I talk about my past life, that was my previous work to this.
I was in the corporate world. I was in finance, I was in business. I had a number of businesses myself, a property marketing company, mobile phone stores, and who would’ve thought that? That I would be gravitating towards this field of, of personal change and transformation. And, and, and it starts with, you know, the healing that you go through yourself and Yeah.
So then out of the training, what was that, what was that transition like for you that moving from the corporate world into the hypnosis world? Well, the transition was, you know, I always thought when I learnt this, the, the, the initial technique, I always used to say that, you know, it, it really is a form of hypnotherapy communicating with the bodies of former trance
You know, we, we may not necessarily call people in a specific trans as hypnotherapist would, who knew that I would go down the path and then learn hypnosis, you know, months later and then years later be able to develop a business around hypnosis and , so forth. So the turning point in the training. I would say I was learning when I was doing my NLP training, it was at the NLP hypnosis training together with Tad James, and we were going through the language patterns and learning the meta model questions, Virginia questions, and the Milton model patterns, of course, you know, conversational hypnosis, and I was completely fried.
Right. and, and, and for me, what came up for me was, You know, I, I’ve just come outta this corporate world and I, I thought I was coming to this world of, of energy vibration, healing quantum consciousness. Let’s hug that out and heal the world. You know what I mean? And, and then I’m in this course and I’m bamboozled with these language patterns.
What activated in me put things up for me, like back at high. Learning English, and I wasn’t that great at that time with my English. In fact, I had a two time convince. I went back and did my senior year, my last year twice, just to get good value out of it. Right. , That’s a clever way of putting it. . Yeah. And, and, and for me, the turning point at that moment, I got so overwhelmed that I put that aside, thought this isn’t for me.
And. Unbeknownst to me the way it was taught. I mean, you know, you know, I forgot everything consciously, but I remembered unconsciously, right? Forget it. Everything consciously, but remember unconsciously. So the way it was embedded, it was embedded in my unconscious mind. I remember I had folded up a piece of paper, an a four piece of paper or a letter size paper, a piece of paper of all the Milton model patterns and the meta model patterns, and I had ’em in my wallet and I’d just carry them around with me.
And then when we never had a chance, I would just be open up the piece of paper and read a phrase or see if I. Integrated into my conversation. Yeah. And, and for me that, I suppose the turning point would’ve been probably 15 years after that, Jason, because this would’ve been now 2013. So we’ve, we’ve carved out a career in the field of complimentary medicine, kinesiology, energy work, nlp.
I worked with hypnosis, I did nlp, but I wasn’t necessarily. Because our, our main business is education where we train practitioners to be certified to be able to use these tools themselves. And so predominantly will be training people in the, in, in, in the fields of energy work in kinesiology. And I was personally using NLP hypnosis with my personal clients and with the students that came in saw me, but we weren’t training them in that field.
And back in 2013 and 14, I thought, you know, it only makes sense for me to go back and recertify myself and become a trainee in the field of a hypnosis and nlp. I’ve got all these students, it makes sense that I can offer them another product as opposed to them going somewhere else. I can clip the ticket on another product.
And you know, business sense, it made sense. So I went back to become a trainer purely from a business perspective, and I found that when I did the training again, Obviously we were different. Right? We had evolved, right? Yeah. And it, it just went bang, bang, bang, bang. And as I was going through the whole manual, I, I was looking at everything.
I thought, Hold on a second. I know that stuff. I know that stuff. I know that I thought it was my stuff. I couldn’t remember looking at it. I thought it was just stuff that I’d come up with. You know what I mean? And it really, the, for me, it was like a bigger aha moment that where I wasn’t consciously aware.
Things had integrated, had gone in on an unconscious level of the learnings. They were there. And for me, my big haha moment was like 15 years later after being in this field and working with clients and not necessarily specifically training and hypnosis and LP going back to become a trainer. Realizing, man, the work that I was doing that I thought was mine was actually work that was taught to me 15 years ago.
And it was in my. I bet the opposite of that was also the case, and I’ll tell you the story that comes to mind that illustrate this, which was that I did one of my original certification trainings with Sean Michael Andrews. Yep. And then back in 2017, he and I taught a big class together out in Vegas, and there was a moment.
Where I introduced something and then I said, This is something I learned from you. And then he looks at it and he goes, I’ve never seen that before. , which turned into, Well, here’s a Jason Ette original . Oh, fantastic. So I’m sure there were some elements of innovation, you were kind of unpacking there in real time by realizing, Oh wait, this is how I’ve been doing it, and perhaps here’s a modification or here’s an alternative route to accomplish the same set of goals.
Right. Well, yes, and that’s a great question you asked there and and I tell the story. Again, I suppose another aha moment for me now, this was like 2013, 14, So fast forward another three years, we’re now about 2016. I had a, a young girl who had completed some of our training who started to do some work with us in administration, and she said to me, Look, after, with all the work that you do, you know, the nlp, the hypnosis, the kinesiology, the energy work, and you’ve integrated it all, what’s your go-to modality?
You’ve got so many modalities. What’s your go-to modality when you work with a client? Because I believe anytime that you work with an anyone, whatever modality you’re working with you, when they completely focus on you, you’ve gotta mesmer they’re in. So they’re in a form of, I suppose, hypnosis. If we look at the definition of, of trans and, and I said, Look, this, probably not go to Medallia, but there is a concept and a theme which we take from the, the, the Chinese, the five elements of nature.
You know, the, the five elements being wood, fire, earth, metal, water, and all of life. Or our life and every experience that we have can be placed on those five elements. And for us, what we’ve adapted. When you said that innovation, Jason, we’ve taken that model. And when we look at the flow of life being the different stages of life, when the wood phase, the birth phase, you know, the fire phase, outward surging phase, the water are the.
The earth phase being the mature phase, the metal phase being the decay phase, and the water phase being the ending phase, we, we’ve connected that to our NLP work, our coaching work, and with our hypnosis work and the conscious mind and the unconscious mind, and there’s a certain part. Of in that five elements, which is the flow of life that we all go through, that we live life consciously.
We live life intentionally, and then we fall into the unconscious and we live life unconsciously. And that’s when, you know, if we’re not aware of it, and it’s until the unconscious become conscious as, uh, young said that, you know, we call it faith and it’ll control us. Right? There’s a moment that. We slip from the conscious to the unconscious, and we fall into what the Chinese say, the metal element and the, and the water element.
And these are the elements of self discovery. These are the elements we need to explore ourselves, the darkness, the shadow, and bring something to an, in order for us to evolve as a as, as a better human being with elevating our thinking, elevating unconsciousness. Now, this is the work that a lot of people avoid to do.
It’s the road which is less traveled, and it’s the pathway of moving into the unconscious mind. And this is where hypnosis plays a big part, right? And. We’ve integrated now the hypnosis work and the NLP work with that five element model. And when we’re working with people, we look at them, uh, specifically where are they in their life and which specific area are we working with?
And, and, and where is the block? Is the block with. Them starting something new, A vision, the purpose, or is it the upward surging phase of getting to work? Or is it the action that they’re doing? Is it the results that they’re getting? They’re starting to decay or they’re holding onto an old way they need to let go of?
Or do they need to bring something to an end? They can rise up with a whole new possibility, whole new vision. And we use different trans processes for each one of those elements. And we can tell, uh, when the client comes. Through, I suppose the, the, the physical elements, not that we treat, diagnosed and prescribed, we’re not, you know, a health professional had its license to do that, but it only makes sense when someone comes in and experiencing a physical condition, a disease, or whatever the case is.
If you can link it back to one of these elements and, and where the blocks are and then use hypnosis and transfer, then to be able to become aware of this and release them from these blocks, then, you know, it really is a magical process. So that’s the innovation that’s happened for us. I suppose over the last or the 25 years, it’s, it’s, it’s worked from 25 years and, and now we have an integrated approach to change work where we integrate hypnosis with, with, with NLP and with the, the work with the kinesiology and, and you know, things like eft, which you know of, and meridians and a whole range of different things.
So we combine the whole lot. In, not only in working with a client, individual one one, but in our trainings and, and that’s what, Yeah. So lemme ask you this to look at the way that it all kind of fits together. I’m always wanted to look at the user experience. So someone’s coming in, Is there a specific, let’s say, case study that comes to mind of identifying where someone was along that journey and then making the process to be what they needed in that experience?
Yeah, absolutely. So, and, and, and there’s a number of ways that we can work with that. I mean, there’s a number of case studies that come to mind. So people may come in and they might have a physical ailment. And again, as we said, we don’t treat, diagnose and prescribe and we gotta make sure that we come in saying that every time we talk about these stories.
Cause sometimes we will think that, hey, you cured the person from. Whatever it was. And then we might put ourselves in hot water, right? Yeah, of course. We don’t heal people, people heal themselves. We’ve just got the the privilege to be able to be there to facilitate the change within themselves, to be able to then connect to that light within them and that inner power and make that integration from the conscious and the unconscious mind and the healing takes place for them.
And so people come in, they might have an ailment, and then we could use, Yeah, a number of tools. We might use Muscle monitor. Pendulum or even an idiomotor signal finger to communicate with the unconscious mind, with relation to the ailment that they’ve come in with. Which stage in their life are they blocked in the elements.
In other words, wood, fire, earth, metal, water. And once the body indicates that element, then we can identify. The emotion based on Chinese medicine that they’re holding onto, and then limiting belief. And then we’ll use the process of, you know, virtual, a certain NLP interventions and hypnosis without a doubt at the end to anchor in all the change for them to actually break free from that.
Now does that mean people cure themselves and their problems disappear with many clients with That’s been the case with, with other clients, of course. It’s just another layout. It’s just another piece of the puzzle. And you know, I’ve, I’ve always said that there’s, we’re not just, and you would know this too, Jay, so we’re not just one person or one medal modality that’s working with a client and the modality.
We’re part of a collective team. I think we all work together. You know, people can come and see you and they can come and see me and they can come and see someone else, and they’ve got no effect. They’ve got no result. They’re, they’re consciously not connecting the dots in terms of the experience that they’ve got.
And then they’ll go and see someone else and it all comes together for them. Was it that someone else that made it for them? Or was it the accumulation of the pieces they collected from myself, from yourself and everyone else before they had that final piece from someone else? And I think as professionals, when we take that view that we’re all part of the one global.
Health team for our clients and we can work together. And then we come across with that set of humility. That’s when we can really, you know, energetically have a space in front of a client of authenticity and congruency. And, and our results completely change because we’re detached from the results where we’re not vested in that it has to be asked to heal the.
We just know that we play a part for the client and, and we are blessed to have the opportunity to be there at that moment for them. We just need to solve in that concept. Right. , So I know there there’s a theme in your work of breaking the process of change down to three steps. Can you elaborate on that?
Yeah. Well, and, and when I say the three steps, and thanks for bringing that up, and it’s really prominent today when I think. Where we are today and what’s happening in the world with, you know, what people are calling a pandemic. And I think today it’s not so much the pandemic, which is showing up, it’s people’s patents.
It’s the patents which are showing up, not the pandemic, it’s the condition that’s showing up as opposed to the this so-called virus, whatever it may be. And I believe, as you would know too, that the greatest threat on the planet today is not so. The physical contagion of this potential virus, but more the emotional contagion of the emotions of fear, of, of panic and, and despair and depression that people can fall into because they think that, you know, the, the, the lives have been halted.
They dunno what to do. They’re in that stuck state. They’re, they’re losing jobs. They might have family or friends that have been affected by the virus. So what is it that they do or that, And so, you know, people allow that mental state to consume. And we, and potentially, you know, if we don’t address that now, really believe that we could have far reaching effects down a track.
More so than what would be from this physical contagion. I think the emotional contagion is a, is is a bigger threat. And so when I think about how we get out of this situation, I think it’s how we get out of any situation, how we get out of any challenges. And this is the way we do our work and we, it’s a three step formula.
And I think right now what we need to do is we need to adopt a role model mindset. We have to ask ourselves, who do we wanna become in the face of this situ? In fact, who do we wanna be in Any situation that we’re experiencing? So we need to adopt a role model mindset. Order for us to adopt a role model mindset.
We need to rewire thinking. So the first step is to rewire our thinking process, because if you want results in life that you never had before, you need to think in life that you in a way that you never thought before, and to think in life in a way that you never thought before. Then you know that people haven’t done that before.
It’s like, well, that’s the paradox. Like how can you think about what you never thought of, if you never thought of not only what it is that you think about, more importantly, how it is that you think that. And so the rewiring really is the conversational, the NLP to get them thinking about life differently once they rere.
And they, we loosen the grip in the world and they start coming out of that hexagon. Cause there’s no boxes, right? In fact, it’s not even a hexagon. There’s no boundaries. But once they, once they start coming out of the shell that they put in and they’re starting to ask better questions so they get better results and they think of the possibilities, that’s when we then re, So we talk about rewiring and then we wanna reset their mind and body.
We need to reactivate their energetic grid. So we use a process of how can we make them more resourceful by resetting. Them, you know, using these energetic tools and then of course redefining who they are. So the three steps are rewire, reset, and redefine. And the rewiring is used. We, we, we work with LP tools, the resetting the mind body of the energetic tools of kinesiology in Chinese medicine and the redefining.
Is really getting them at the core, at the unconscious level, which is the hypnosis and the mindfulness, and even the meditation where we get them to take on board a whole new identity. You know? So we say you need to rewire your brain so you can go from being reactive to more resourceful. You want to reset your body to go from being run down, to be reinvigorated, and you want to redefine yourself to go from.
Ruminating and thinking, are you lost cause to being reengaged in life? And I think anytime anyone comes with any problem, they’re the steps they need to go through. They need to rewire their thinking. They need to reset their modern body, get reenergized, and then they need to redefine. Themselves and, and reconnect, reengage, and reengage with a bigger vision.
And that happens by making that first step of this saying, you know, who do I wanna be for my family? Who do I wanna be for my kids? Who do I wanna be for the community? You know, what role am I gonna play here? Because you know, this challenge, whatever challenge we’re going through, we gonna get to the end of it.
We’re gonna come out of it. And so when we come out of it and look back, who do I want to be known as during this situ? They wanna be known as someone that stood up, made a change, and let someone else and my family through it. Or do you wanna be someone known as someone who ran away from it, or just the foot off the accelerator?
You know, I really think today, now so many people just taking off the foot off the accelerator and just waiting to see what happens when I think we’ve been given the biggest blessing where life’s sort of come to us and said, You know what? Here’s a permission slip for you to reset your life. You got two or three months.
From everything so you can stay behind closed doors and reset your life, rethink what’s important to you. Like here’s a permission slip and, and, and we’re not taking the opportunity and what, what I’m saying now, here in Australia, like our, our, our, our prime minister came out and said, We wanna be back in business.
You know, our, our, our economy want, it wants to be operational by July. So we got two months for them to go through this plan of opening up and coming out of. Isolation and you know what I’m saying? Now, people are gonna get to that point in two months time when we get back to what they think is normal and they’re gonna look back and say, Man, I missed the opportunity.
Well, I had an opportunity to actually do something myself. I had the opp, I had two or three months off and I wasted it, doing nothing. Now I’m caught up doing what I was doing before, caught up in the rat race. Mm-hmm. , I had, I don’t have time now. Evolve my conscious, so I don’t have time now to learn a new skill.
I’d have time now to actually maybe go and do the work I needed to myself to become a better person. And so I. Everyone, the blessing. If you were to look at what’s a bigger picture, if we chunk up, what’s the purpose of all this? I think the bigger picture is for us to go inside and reflect on, you know, what’s important to us.
And a lot of people talk about pivoting their career, pivoting how they wanna surf humanity, and how. And I suppose people in our field, right? We’ve all gone virtual, right? You know, that people did do online work, but suddenly we got everyone doing online work, online , online, hyp notice you knows a team that we’re all local now.
Yeah. And, and, and, and that’s made the world much smaller for us. And we realized, man, we, we are getting better, if not the same results, better results than before. And we’re opening up the border with everyone else. And we never had that thinking before until we’re forced to. Pivot our, our way of doing a business.
But what I’m saying to people is it’s not just your business that you need to pivot. You need to pivot your relationships. You need to pivot your conversations with your partner. You need to pivot your conversations with your kids. You need to pivot on your health because if you wanna get to the next level in your career, you need to do something you haven’t done.
If you wanna get to the next level in your, in your relationship, you need to do something you haven’t done. If you need to get the next level with your health, you need to do something you haven’t done. And I come back and I say the saying again, If you want results in life that you never had before, You need to do the things in life that you’ve never done before.
Yeah. And to do the things in life that you’ve never done before. You need to think in life in a way that you never thought before, but that’s the paradox. How can you think about what you never thought of, if you never thought of, or not only what it is that you think, but how it is that you think that, And I think what strategies, what’s, what strategies in terms of turning this into something actionable that people can now, let’s say even do with their clients.
What, what do you tend to recommend they, they look at in terms of a route to make that happen? Well, the strategies that, you know, if someone comes in, we have a three step process as we set, so we sit down. With all our clients. So we wanna really define what the problem is. You know, we wanna make sure we ask enough questions and, and we are using different language patterns, chunking down and chunking up to really understand the nature of the problem.
Cause how many times the people come in and they’ve got a problem, you think? Is that a problem? I mean, you have to actively hallucinate to realize that there’s a problem there. Yeah. is it a problem. So unless you can wear the problem hat and say, I understand the problem, we need to ask the question to understand the problem.
Once we get that, then we can identify their patterns off thinking that may have led to that. And so then we start to challenge that. We try to challenge them like, and unravel their thinking with the language patterns. Get them to think outside the box and, and you see them, they become disrupted, right?
The sensory cur, they’re starting to what’s going on inside. And you know there’s change happening now. Of course there is. And once that starts to happen, then we start to apply all the other techniques, you know? The energetic work, the kines, your work, the five element stuff, where in your life that we need to work on?
We do, we work, we need to work on the vision phase, or we need to work on the, the surging phase. The the, the action phase, the results phase, the decay letting go phase or the ending phase, and the symptoms will give us signs of that. And then once we’ve. I suppose recalibrated that energetic grid. Then we, we used the hypnosis and, and we tailor the hypnosis work based on the information that we collected from working with the client based on their personal information from their problem and how their body has communicated to us.
And so they work away with, you know, person. Hit no work for Wonder of a better work that is, is tailored for them. Tailored for them. So they, you go through the process of change and, and for us, you know, all those tools. That’s really what mind body coaching is. And it’s a combination of using all those tools in, in one specific way.
And, and if we’re to give it a name, we call it the accelerated transformational process. Mm-hmm. , ATP uses all these tools, uses n. Users energy work. Canines uses hypnosis, uses mindfulness, uses EFT in order to get the person from, as we know, from where they are now, to where they want to be. And our job is to bridge the gap, right?
In fact, what’s our job? We’re builders. We say, Hey, you are here. We want you to clarify where you are right now. Right? That’s the reality. Where do you want to go? That’s where you want to go. Well, between you, where you are now and where you want to go, you know, there’s. So our job is to help you build a bridge and get over it.
that’s what you tell guys. You know what? Build a bridge. Get over it. That’s what we’re doing. We’re building bridge help you get over your crap and nice and, and, and on that bridge. As we journey on that bridge together, we’re side by side and we help you uncover all the resources and their strengths and their gifts that you already had.
You know, it’s what I like about this. Yeah. What I like about this is that there’s a definite through line, which of course, as soon as we have a framework, there’s a sense of freedom that we’ve got a place to begin with. But also it gives us permission to sometimes break that framework if someone comes in and, you know, presents us the information, a slightly different order not to go, Oh, no, no, we’re, we’re gonna do that later.
Let’s do this part now. Yeah. So let me ask you this. In terms of working with a client, is there a story. Of working with someone that kind of stands out to you of kind of embodying this three step process? Well, gee, yeah, actually, okay. I’m not gonna overanalyze it. Whatever just comes to mind, right? Is the best story to tell.
And there was a client that I worked with, and she was a student, initially started to learn the work with us and she came in to see, and at that time I would see students as clients. So I learned very early in the piece, that’s probably not a good idea, , Right? But we had some amazing results with her. She, she was a young girl.
She was only 21, 22, learning the craft. And so she had the whole life ahead of herself, you know, like just coming outta school and, and deciding to do this as a career. But her history was that, you know, as in a teenage year, she, uh, suffered from depression. She was on Sola and Broza, and she had attempted to take a life a number of times and, and she was anorexic.
So we, we, we did a combination of things with, and, and, and, and again, that’s the framework we work with Jason. It’s like, where are you right now? Right. In fact, we didn’t start with where you are right now because she didn’t wanna acknowledge where she is right now. So we started. Where do you you wanna go?
So it’s either gonna be one of the book ends we’re gonna start with, right? Either the the end book end or the beginning book end. But ultimately we need both of them to, to put the path together. So we started with, okay, let’s get very clear what it is that you want to achieve. What are the results that you wanna achieve?
And as we’ve done that and built rapport and be able to do some work to be able to get her, be comfortable with that, we got her to be able to get, take responsibility for where she’s right. And the role that she played to find herself in as a 21 year old who, you know, sub from depression, took Anex and took a life, and I suppose the one story from a hypnosis perspective, I wanna share this.
She was on taking medication and she wanted to get off the medication. She said to you, Can you do some work for me to get off the medication? I said, Well, of course you know that it’s, it’s not for us to tell you, get off the medication. Only a doctor can who’s prescribing medication to get you off the medication.
What we can do is do a number of techniques that can. Symbiotically and complimentary to what it is that you’re doing. And if you find that you’re getting results, you go back to your doctor and see where you can get off the medication. And she wanted to see whether we can talk to the unconscious mind.
She goes, Have you got a tool so we can talk to the unconscious mind whether I need to take the medication And I use the simple process of video motor signals, right? Connecting to the, you know, put her in a life trance and need her motor signals. And yet, you know, we we’re testing beliefs where I want to.
Be healthy. She was not congruent with mm-hmm. . I want to be sick. She was congruent with, Right. Here’s the big one. I want to live, No, I want to die. Yes. As soon as we put the medication on her body and I thought, I just let, just give this a go. But I put the medication on her body so she’s the energy of the medication.
And then we ask the questions. I want to live. Yes, I want to die. No. So the medication was serving a purpose. The medication on one level was keeping her wiring the way needed be for her to stay alive, and that’s all she needed to see. For her to understand that the medication served the purpose and detached from the fact that she needed to, she wanted to get off it, and the moment she detached from the fact, It’s okay to take the medication, right?
Mm-hmm. is when she got better and got off the medication. , and, and like, you know, that to, to the story because with this girl, cuz she was learning stuff with us and we did some work and there was one point where, You know, with the work that we do, we’ll hug it out at the end. You know, we’ll create a relation, we’ll hug her out at the end.
But during the journey, in order to change to occur, you know, we love the person, but we don’t love the problem, which means we gotta get in the face of the problem. So sometimes you’re gonna have to rattle people, you’re gonna have to shake that cage. And for some people that’s, they don’t like that. Right?
And for this girl, we got to a point. We got, you know, head to head and we didn’t talk from almost like eight to 10 months. And it wasn’t until she had an awareness that she came back and said, you know, everything that happened in that process is exactly what’s happening. I wanna thank you. And she had the biggest healing for me.
I think the thing that ratified the change, we were doing a, a mind body spirit festival. You know, people come and, and we had a little stand there and we’re talking about our techniques and our work. And this gentleman and old, an older man came up and wanted to have a chat with me and I was talking to someone else and through the corner of my eye could see him in the corner.
And when I finished chatting to the person I was chatting and I went over to have it speak to him, I knew straight away who it was. I just sense it was this girl’s father. And he came up to me and he said, Look, Arthur, um, so and so’s dad, and I just, Can I give you a. And I said, absolutely. I mean, we hugged back then we don’t hug anymore, but you know, we’re looking forward to hug again.
And, and he said, I’m just so blessed. I’m grateful that, you know, you had the opportunity to, to work with his daughter and, and, and, and the work that she’s done and her becoming a practitioner herself, a coach, and a therapist, an energy worker, and being a spokesperson for teenage suicide and being voted as a young entrepreneur, business woman in the year at the age of 23 was just amazing.
And he said to me, You know, you, you, you, you helped the tremendously. And I said to him, Look, you, thank you for that. It’s humbling. But it, I didn’t do the work. She did all the work, right? Mm-hmm. , we were just blessed to be there and be a catalyst for her to actually make decisions for her to change. Into the young woman that she was.
And, and, and so for me, I share that story because number one, I was blown away myself with those EO motor signals when, you know, the body was indicating through the unconscious mind that she had a belief that she wanted to die. And yet with a medication on her body, Right. She was with wanting to live, so the medication was keeping her alive.
Wow. Right. People would’ve thought, Right. And that’s all like an unconscious sign. And so we tailored the work around that, not necessarily to get off the medication a bit, to okay with it and to be okay with her next step. And I think it was from that time I started to realize all you need to work with the.
Is the next step. You know, sometimes we get caught up with how can we get ’em to, to the moon, right? Mm-hmm. from where to the moon. Well, you know, from here to the moon, there’s many, many steps and all we need to focus on is the next step. And if you just focus on the next step. Cause sometimes we get so far ahead of them, and I think there’s too far the distance between where we are and where they are is too far.
They don’t think they’re capable of going through that. . And so if we can just focus on the next step for them, then it makes it easier for them to take that transition. Right? Which, especially, I mean, a client coming in and really look at any issue, you know, there’s a question that I often tend to ask my clients, which is that, you know, assuming we’re working in a brief process, okay, we’re back here again, you know, a week from now.
What’s that story you want to be telling as early as the next time we’re here that’s gonna validate Yes, things are moving in a better direction. Yeah. Yeah. You know, so getting that instant feedback, getting that at least, what’s gonna be that initial foot in the door that’s gonna be necessary to affect that change as opposed to.
Here’s the, I see a lot of business owners and here’s everything I wanna accomplish in the next month. It’s like, Wow, that’s a lot. What are you gonna do today, ? Correct. What are we gonna get in motion this week? That we can have that feedback that, yes, now we’ve got something and we can ride that momentum.
Yeah. And the, and the metaphor I use is we, you know, we, we, we all love driving, right? We’ve got our own cars and, and we like driving. Some people like driving during the day. I like driving in the night. And I think that’s what, it’s a metaphor for life, right? Because we’re driving be through the darkness and when the unconscious and, and like when we are going somewhere, I could be driving, for example, from Sydney to Melbourne and I’m doing a night drive.
I know I’m going to me. But I cannot see Melbourne from my steering wheel. Love my car. Mm-hmm. in the, in the nighttime. All I can see is the 10 feet ahead. Which is where the headlights are beaming. Right. But I do know that every time I’m moving, I’m seeing 10 meters ahead. Every time I’m moving, I’m seeing 10 meters ahead and I know I’m going to Melbourne.
I need to see where Melbourne, I just need to see 10 meters ahead and just keep on doing that and I’ll get to Melbourne. Yeah. So we just need to focus on the steps that are required. She, you know, it’s the, it’s the little things that amount to the big things. You know, I learned that, you know, I was grateful to learn that early on.
Cuz you know, all of us, when we come in this field, we wanna have great change and as a planetary change. And we wanna heal the world and, and heal poverty. And we wanna be the ones that, and, and we go through and journey, right? We go through ups and downs and it’s not. We, uh, have, uh, humbling experiences ourself and, and we go through the trials and tribulations.
We go through the journey of the RO list travel. We go through our own personal transformation. We go through the darkness and that we can rise and say, You know what? I get where you’re coming from cause I’ve been there and. And I’m, I’m not just someone who’s, you know, turned up overnight, taking a photo in front of other people’s audiences, other people’s cars and other people’s houses and spooking that we are gonna be able to do this for you overnight.
No, I’m, I’m someone who’s talking to you from experience and talking to you in, in the most authentic way because we’re all human. And if I was to show that I’m perfect and I can, I’m the answer for you. I’d probably run away from that person. I think today people wanna connect with more, people are more personal, you know, especially today with the, what the world’s going through.
I think the, the old Wall Street era of doing business is gone. Yeah. You know, the eighties and nineties and even the early two thousands, and today people are doing business differently and, and this is where, you know, pivoting our business for us to be able to, whatever your message is, to get it out there and surf humanity in your own individual unique way.
And it’s not about who’s better or who’s. Then it’s about collectively, what can we do to make change? Because the sum total of all of our vibrations, vi vibrations, is always going to be greater. Right then the individual vibrations themselves. Well, it’s where, And again, really, and this is part of why, you know, I invited you on here, is that opportunity to be in front of a group of people and the, the mindset of popping up and going, No, really, I’m good at this.
Doesn’t quite hold up anymore as opposed to showing people and demonstrating and giving that value. And by doing it in that way, now we’ve actually got a relationship. Now we’ve actually got something that people attach to and want more of. So can, Can you talk a bit? And the disclaimer is, I have now since bought every bit of technology you recommended, uh,
Can you talk a bit about some of your strategy of going live online and, you know, sharing value with that audience to direct people into what you do? Yeah, look, and, you know, obviously like all of us, we, as we said, we need to pivot our business and, you know, we, we, we would see people live clients and obviously a majority of business is training and we’d be doing a training live.
I thought, okay, what do we. Let’s deliver our training virtual, Let’s create a virtual online training for our, you know, NLP training. You know, which is the first step of the rewiring process, right? When we look at the, the three steps to Rewire, reset and redefine yourself, the rewiring is the nlp, you know, and we’ve got a problem called Evolve Your Mindset, and, and it’s a five day NLP training, which.
Certified with the American Board of nlp. You know, you’ve got live work and some pre or post-study, so it’s a hundred hours endorsed. And we thought, how do we do this online? And I thought, Wow. Okay, let, let’s get it. Let’s, let’s just do it. Mm-hmm. , and, you know, we got all our tech organizer, we got three or four cameras, we got a green screen, we got all the technology going and, and you know what I found myself.
Before I got in this fill, I had a, obviously I like my technology myself and, and these opportunities that we find ourselves in has given me the chance to be able to link that with the work that we do. Yeah. And so we put together, you know, certain software we’re using E cam and Zoom and breakout rooms like you are doing Jason and three cameras were different effects and everything else.
And we decided to run an NLP training live. And I have to tell you, you know, we, we. Two weeks ago, we finished it up. We had up to 40 people in our, in our, in our training. And it probably was not, probably, it was . It was, it was, I have to say, when I think about all the training we’ve done over the 25 years, that has been the most impactful, the most energetic, the group has connected together so much and the feedback and the experience.
And the change that has happened is been greater than any live event that we’ve had where we’ve hugged it out. Mm-hmm. , So the, the virtual hug has been better. And, and there’s a number of reasons for that, that people have given to me. Number one, you’re like, you, you, you are going to an auditorium, right?
And it’s 40 people sitting there, and you are looking at probably 30 heads, right? , because you’re sitting at the back, you’re not looking at people’s faces. When you’re online, you’ve got a full screen of 30 faces. You’re seeing everyone’s face all at once, so you’ve got an instant connection with everyone.
You also see the trainer right there up front in front of you, not a little person on front of the stage when they’re in a room of a hundred. Yeah, right. The other big thing, which was awareness as a lady who had done this training, you know, four times with other trainings, and she goes, This was the best training that she’s experienced online.
I thought, Oh, okay. Obviously your, your feedback is also a result of all the other experiences you had, so thank you for it. But I’m also grateful that you’ve had the experiences to, to be able to give us the feedback and, and her feedback was that when you’re in an event, it’s easy to get distracted with the people sitting next to you mm-hmm.
and get distracted with what’s going on within the room. Now, on a live training, you’ve got no one sitting next to you. You’re in the sacred space of your home. So on one unconscious level, , you’re now comfortable to get uncomfortable. Yeah. And this is what we want you to do. And so if you are gonna be in your own chair, In your own home, in your own walls, you’re already in a safe place.
You’re already allowing yourself to become vulnerable. You also have no distractions around you. You’ve got 20 people that you’re looking at right on your screen. Always changing. And it’s trainer right there, and it’s just full on. And if you get the interaction right as you’re doing, Jason, you know the, the Zoom breakout rooms.
The chat room. Yeah. And I found like what, uh, you know, we had now we had Mike. Mike was helping us out, you know, Mike’s doing some work with you. Mike was really my, my, my partner in the, in, in, in, in delivering this program. So we would be doing the live training and Mike took care of the chat. The Zoom chat.
And so every time I said something or I delivered something, he would post something in the chat to ratify the teaching and then ask a question to get people interacting. So he was responsible to keep the energy of the chat and the group up right, and relay the messages back to me and I would answer the messages.
So that took it off me. So that added another dimens. To these virtual training, yeah’s something that I’ve done before as well by having that person to be there. Interacting with that material, interacting in that format, where now, you know, it be becomes the benefit that we’re actually in the space together and things are happening in real time.
Yeah. Which again, the cool thing is, is that what I love about this dialogue is that it breaks the conversation away from what can’t you do online to, well, what can you do differently? What can you enhance inside of the process? Correct. And I think for us, for, I found myself, because we were doing it online, I actually was more mindful.
It was almost like I was doing this for the first time myself, right? I mean, I was doing an online thing for the first time, not that we delivered the content for the first time, but it was in that format. And so I was more intentional and more mindful to ensure that the language I use. Was the language that generated a full, complete experience for them now, a visual experience, an auditory experience, a kinesthetic experience, you know, even, you know, to, you know, medium level trans where they had smell changes, Right.
They could smell things in the air, . Right. Okay. And they could hear the sound coming from the left or the right or the front. And so because we were more intentional and mindful, we were able to, I, I suppose, deliver a whole different experience. And, and for what it did for me, it, it’s like I was hopeful before that, trusting that the process would work and that would pivot a whole new direction for us and what it did for me.
It just gave me the internal representation and the references that yes, there’s now my convincer man. This is a path. So when we’re corona free, we are still going down that path. Oh yeah. Once again, proven viability and the number of people who I work with is clients who are popping up and going, Yeah. I don’t think I’m going back to the office cuz I can do all of us online.
Yeah. Before we, uh, before we start to wrap up, how can we, uh, how can people get in contact with you online? How can they find out? Look, probably the best place to go to and thank you for asking Jason, is go to evolve your mindset.com and that really is the first step of, of the rewiring process. So wherever it is that you’re going through, you know, we’re gonna help you get very clear where you wanna go and also where you are right now.
And, and, and it starts with your thinking. It starts with you taking responsibility. For the role that you played in getting yourself to where you are, understanding cause and effect, understanding, perceptions, projection, understanding that everyone that you come across, every experience that you have, you know, everyone is your spiritual friend, right?
They’re gonna project your stuff and they’re gonna keep on projecting your stuff until you get it , right? And so that, that’s the, that’s the first course because. You know, with all, all change work, you know, if people have been anchored into a problem for such long time, your metaphor I use, if you go and see a chiropractor and they need to adjust your back, you know, the, the, the seasoned chiropractor knows if he just goes in and adjust the back without actually getting you ready, he may cause some damage, and so he’ll get a mass sewer.
To actually massage the soft tissue first, to loosen up the, the, the tension in your back muscles before he comes in and does the adjustment. And I think that’s why, you know, this first program is evolve your mindset. It actually loosens your grip on the world, loosens your grip on your old thought patterns, your old way, your old ideas, your old frameworks, if, for want of a better word, right?
So then when we come. With then getting the energy right and the hypnosis, that’s where lasting change occurs. So volume mindset.com is really the NLP certification training. And what we’re saying to people is, Well, this training, whether you wanna become a practitioner or not, this should be trained.
That’s in schools. This should be training that everyone does because it’s just gonna. Help you evolve your thinking to be a better human being. Cause a lot of us are getting caught up as being human doings and not doing much at the moment, but becoming better human being. Having better conversations with your loved ones, your, your partner, being a better taxi driver, a better chiropractor, better if he’s a therapist, a better pharmacist, whatever you choose to do.
A better parent, you know, these are tools for you to actually rise up and be a better human being. And when you do, You know, we say, Well, you might just find that not only when you break through and get to the next level high performance experience in your life, you might find that you have a call on yourself that you might have, you’ve got a call to actually become a person of service.
And I think ultimately when we all get to that level, we all have an experience that guests us to a point where we take that switch inside and then we wanna serve humanity. I think that’s a magical, magical time that that happens. So if you wanna become a personal service, hey, we’ll show you. We’ve. We’ve got a rabbit hole for you to go down.
We can show you a pathway where you can become a mind body coach and, and be able to help people worldwide. But it starts first with evolving you. And, and, and, you know, normally people would come along and they could invest anywhere up to, you know, four or $5,000 for such a trading. And we believe that everyone needs to have this in the hand.
So if you come along and, uh, go to the evolve your mindset.com website, all you need to do is use the code NLP four 90. And you can get the whole training for, you know, $495. You know, I’ve had anyone, one sat me, What are you doing? Are you actually discounting the whole industry? I said, Look, my hs my contribution and everyone’s entitled to what they wanna do.
And I believe that I’ve been blessed over 25 years to be able to make a, an income and a living and supporting people in this field. Now’s the time to give back. That give back. You know, I’m not making it about the money I’m making about the change because I really believe. If we focus on that, you know, we’ll have more people doing more stuff with us down the track.
That’s okay. Whether it’s now later on, it’s whenever they wanna do it. But right now it’s about getting people exposed to these tools that maybe would not consider it, because number one, they’re not aware of it, that it’s a life skills program. It doesn’t have to be a certification program. And number two, they wouldn’t consider it because of the.
Because a lot of people don’t understand the value in something unless they experience it. And so we wanna give ’em the experience so they can understand the value of the program so they can actually do more for themselves and for others. So that’s the website. Jason Lynette here once again, and as always, thank you so much for interacting with this program, for sharing it on your social media streams, and of course, Leaving your reviews online.
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